Saturday, 6 June 2015

Love The Man

By Evan Sanders


He is not going to be perfect. Actually he might be totally different than you believed he would ever be. He is absolutely going to make mistakes, fail over and over, and lose himself once in a while. He is going to be in doubt, insecure at certain times and let you down. His fluidity at times when the sea roars will baffle you. His quietness when life rips the rug out from him will make you wonder where he went. Did he leave? Did he drift away into some faraway land? He will, occasionally, escape into his hate, fear and nervousness. He'll suffer and wrench within his soul. He will need to leave for some time, going off on his own to answer questions only tranquility will provide him with. He will have times where he will crack in front of you, cry even, and lose the strength he had because he has been strong in the world too long. He'll go back and forth in his decisions from time to time and you may question if he will ever make them. He will do all those things and plenty more.

But when you have a man, a real man, his compass will always come back true.

If you adore the man, he will be your mountain, the unmovable rock in your life whenever you need him. He's going to be your greatest fan, no matter the circumstance or situation, he will be there for you in any fashion he can be. If you love the man in him, he will stand in the face of your chaos, waves crashing about him, and no matter how much the blackness of your feelings seem to test him, he can always stand strong. If you adore the man, he will push you to dream as big as you can and help you see the overall picture. He will be able to bring something out in you that you never thought you might have in your life. If you love the truly imperfect man, he will help you bloom and moment by moment, bring you out of your darkest moods into open love. If you respect the man he will be your equal, realizing that together you could be more than you would ever be apart. If you love the man he's going to love you as much as he truly loves life itself, deep inside knowing you're his joy and he's your light.

He's going to want to be your hero, your companion, the king to the queen you are. If you adore the man you may evoke grand passions from him, the deepest feelings he'll be able to gather and he's going to share them with you because somewhere deep down in his heart he really does trust you.

When you have a real man in your life, he's going to be certain despite all of this doubt and uncertainty. He will disappear to find his answers and come back to you continuously. He will be able to writhe with his choices and then make them, moving forward with conviction and bring you along the ride for the best adventure of your life. He'll feel his insecurity and doubt, and trot out a confidence that will settle your heart. If you love the real man, he'll look at you and not have to say anything, because he can feel into you and already knows what your heart wants. If you adore the man, he will do anything for you. He will cross oceans for you. He will move mountains for you. It might not look like you thought it would, but if you really love the man, he will bring a love out in you that will light your soul on fire, and together, you can change the world and the lives of many.




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