What if heartbreak was your best healer?
What if you actually took some time to jump into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that annihilated you, it basically helped in creating you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. But, they're incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in some way or other and truthfully there is not any worse feeling that you can go through. You're feeling totally awful for what seems like an eternity and the sensations of loss never seem to go. If we keep playing on the great field of life, we will suffer the inescapable fact that our hearts will break from time to time.
But what if, when heartbreak comes to us, we allow it to show us where we actually need to do deep interpersonal work? How will we take the agony of loss and be able to create something beautiful with it?
I'm not saying that we should try and ascend above our pain, but rather as an alternative try to take our own agony and birth something positive and pretty out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet at the same time one that could make an incredible difference when we face deep grief.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all that discomfort inside and make it into something else. Try writing, painting, drawing, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what's inside you instead of letting it eat you day after day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it out. You never know what may happen.
What if you actually took some time to jump into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that annihilated you, it basically helped in creating you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. But, they're incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in some way or other and truthfully there is not any worse feeling that you can go through. You're feeling totally awful for what seems like an eternity and the sensations of loss never seem to go. If we keep playing on the great field of life, we will suffer the inescapable fact that our hearts will break from time to time.
But what if, when heartbreak comes to us, we allow it to show us where we actually need to do deep interpersonal work? How will we take the agony of loss and be able to create something beautiful with it?
I'm not saying that we should try and ascend above our pain, but rather as an alternative try to take our own agony and birth something positive and pretty out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet at the same time one that could make an incredible difference when we face deep grief.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all that discomfort inside and make it into something else. Try writing, painting, drawing, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what's inside you instead of letting it eat you day after day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it out. You never know what may happen.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a rough patch or just had your heart broken? Yeah, that can be pretty darn tough. I put together some heartbreak quotes to help you out in this situation.
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